How to Maintain Positivity

Submitted by myersdavis on Thu, 03/19/2020 - 08:29 pm
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Negative thoughts can take over your life and drain you of energy.  If you allow your negative thoughts to take over, they can turn into a negative life.  If you believe that the worst can happen, you can actually cause bad things to occur in your life.  Once negative thoughts start, it can be hard to get them to stop.  Here are some tips to help you get out of your negative thought process and turn to the positive side of things.

Meditate – Taking some time to relax and ease your mind can be important for your mental health.  Focus on your breathing and your heartbeat and truly get out of your own head.

Laugh – Laughing can bring a complete change to your attitude.  Smiling and laughing can help you change your mood and it uses fewer muscles than frowning.

Friends – All of us have friends and acquaintances that we meet in life.  However, surrounding ourselves with positive people can make our lives more enjoyable.  Hanging out with negative people can be extremely frustrating and it can take you into a negative spiral.

Tone – Change your tone in all of your thoughts.  There are definitely going to be challenges in life and times when you may think the worst, but try and realize the positive side to all negative experiences.

Victim – Don’t be a victim to your thoughts and believe that your life is harder than others or that you cannot overcome what has been thrown at you.  We all have stress and drama in our lives, but there is always a way out eventually.

Help Others – Helping others is truly more beneficial to your own help than those you help.  Realizing that you have lots to be thankful for is a wonderful way to put things into perspective.  Helping others takes your mind off of your own life and let’s you put the focus on something else.

Give Yourself a Break – Do not dwell on your mistakes and realize that everyone falls short of perfection.  Learn from your past mistakes and do better in the future.  Life is full of lessons and what you take away from those lessons is the true sign of growth.

List Blessings – Be grateful for everything you have been given and make sure that you are counting your blessings.  List all the things that you have going for yourself and realize how lucky you are.

Recognize Fears – We all have fears and some are highly valid fears to have.  However, analyze the fear and realize its worst-case scenario.  Realistically analyzing the fear is a way to minimize the effect it has on you.

Stop Watching the Morning News – Many things that the news broadcasts in the morning can be negative.  Waking up to negative information first thing in the morning can set a negative tone that lasts throughout the day.  Keep your news watching to a minimum and try reading internet articles that are not as negative in nature.